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Marilyn Duncan Wiltshire; CWS(Certified Wedding Specialist), BA, dip Ed, is the owner and principal consultant of Triniweddings. She previously owned and managed P&S Rentals, a Party Rentals company which she sold at the end of 2013 to dedicate her time solely to weddings. She is an accomplished Special Events Planner and a member of Weddings Beautiful Worldwide, the International Special Events Society and the Association of Bridal Consultants. She has been responsible for the coordination and production of many successful local weddings and is associated with many of the country’s more prominent service providers.She also plans a great many “destination” weddings here in Trinidad and Tobago for brides who reside abroad. In addition to planning fabulous weddings she is a part time lecturer at the Lok Jack School of Business in the Event Management Program which is done in conjunction with the George Washington University in the United States. Marilyn recently acquired the license from Weddings Beautiful Worldwide to teach and confer the CWS and AWP designations to students throughout the Caribbean region.

Thursday, 19 July 2012

Etiquette on a Budget



Quiet elegance is always in style.

Consider a few white lilies for the bridal bouquet instead of an elaborate arrangement.

An afternoon tea or garden luncheon can be as charming as a 5 course sit down dinner.

Select fewer attendants. The larger the wedding and number of attendants, the greater the expense.

But no matter how limited the budget, the rules of etiquette still apply.

Having a reception which serves only punch and cake is acceptable. Asking guests to buy their own dinners is not.

Having an alcohol free reception is fine. Having a cash bar isnt.

Registering for things the couple would like and need is fine. Asking for money instead of gifts isnt.

Sending email invitations instead of printed or handwritten ones for a small intimate wedding isnt OK.

Neglecting to send thank you notes within an acceptable time frame is not appropriate.

Every part of a wedding, even one done on a very limited budget, should be done with style and good taste. An affordable wedding can be just as memorable as a lavish one. Guests will remember the beautiful personal touches, not how much was spent on the wedding.

If you have questions about any aspect of wedding etiquette do stop in a talk with us at TriniWeddingd. We are here to help you have the wedding you want.

 

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