The rehearsal dinner is an integral part of
the wedding celebration. It is a happy
and relaxing time for family and friends.
It is designed to bring people together and it sets the tone for the ceremony and celebration to come.
Traditionally, the groom’s family hosts the
party. They invite the immediate
families of the bride and the groom, the officiating clergy and spouse, the
complete wedding party and their spouses or dates. If there are out-of-town guests include them
in the evening’s festivities.
It is usually held immediately following the
wedding rehearsal held the night before the ceremony.
At the dinner use a seating chart and place
cards to help people ensure that they meet each other.
While the bridal couple and their parents
usually sit at the head table, more and more couples are choosing to mingle
with their guests.
As the host, the groom’s father makes the
traditional toast to the couple and at this time he should introduce everyone
as some guests may be unfamiliar with those in attendance.
This party is a perfect time for the couple to
present gifts to their attendants,
especially if the items are to be worn at the wedding.
While it is a party, ensure that it doesn’t
last too long. Every member of the wedding
party needs to get a good night’s sleep so that they look their best at the main event the
next day.
